Think back to the first time you used the internet. The first time you actually used it, then kept using it every day without ever deciding to. For most of us there are years between those two moments. Mine started in 1996, in a college computer room with a friend about to 'go on the internet' for the first time.Neither of us knew what to look for. We decided to look at a book we were already reading. (Mr Nice FYI) There was no Google. Mobile phones were for businessmen. 1998. I made money...
about 2 months ago • 1 min read
She found me. I don’t know how, but she did. Diane. I few weeks ago I told you about my encounter in a hot tub with an elderly lady. Beneath the Bali stars and in the volcanic spring water, the conversation didn't feel like a chance encounter. It seemed like our paths were meant to cross, at that exact moment, to create a moment. A moment significant enough that I wrote to you about it, and significant enough to Diane to track me down a few weeks later. What she shared will remain between us....
3 months ago • 1 min read
Hello Reader Link to Mini Course is below I got a lot of feedback from my last email. A tale about life, surrender, and change. Change can happen to us - usually unwelcome. Or we can make it happen - usually empowering. Always growing.Most people take 5 to 6 years to act on a decision they already know they want to make.The next 5 years will bring more change than the last 20.To by the time you're ready, the world might not be recognisable.You won't be stuck. You'll be lost. We help people...
3 months ago • 1 min read
Hello there, I'm currently in the remote part of North West Bali. Last night the stars came out. I decided to have a pre-bed soak in one of the volcanic hot spring pools. An elderly lady appeared, and got in. Then another four. And another three. I'm sat with 8 of them, having a lively conversation. They tell me they are all from Australia and on a retreat, connecting around a mantra workshop. They all are experiencing the magic of Bali. Harmony. Inspiration. Connection. Feeling change and...
3 months ago • 2 min read
I want to tell you something about Dani. He ran the family business in Manchester for years. Feeling the itch he stretched into new circles. Searching for new answers. Found a networking event in London that changed everything. He'd get on the train to London to go to personal development events. And every week he'd feel it. Heading south: free. Alive. Like himself. The exciting new location where people supported him because they wanted the same thing. New, and a little bit scary. Heading...
4 months ago • 1 min read
I'm putting together the slides for the upcoming workshop, putting all the tips and tools we use to build the life we want. It reminded me of when I was most fearful. In a hospital bed alone during lockdown. Dealing with a life threatening illness. My businesses crumbling because I wasn't in it. People I trusted trying to sue me. Kids not knowing why I wasn't there. Burning through savings. Not knowing if i'd see my family again. Everything I had built in dust. Kinda makes you worry about the...
4 months ago • 1 min read
Most people take 5-6 years to make a decision they already know they want to makeThat big decision you want to make? Unmade. Because: People. Places. Money. Time.. "I’ll do X when I have Y." Maybe seem like good reasons. But the decision you already know you want to make will take you 6 years to make it.6 more years not doing the thing you said you wanted to do. This week, you won’t regret it. But longer than that? Studies show in an average week people regret actions they took at 53% - and...
4 months ago • 1 min read
Its time. The world used to give you time. It doesn't any more. Most people take 5-6 years to make a decision they already know they want to make. Those people don't or cant make a decision that feels like the right one. Because they they're trying to cover too many bases. “If I do X then I miss out on doing Y” It's about removing not adding. Subtract not stack. But in a way that doesn't feel like giving anything up. And that's something you have to learn, from someone who's already figured...
4 months ago • 1 min read
I spent the last month speaking to 70-80 year olds. Why? Because I want to learn at their age how they think, what they look forward to and what they regret. And there’s a running bunch of lessons they wish they'd known in their 40 & 50s. When time became the one thing money couldn't buy back. They all said there are three stages of life. In your 20s, time and health, but no money. In your 40s, money and health, but no time. In your 70s, time and money, but health is fading. Most people spend...
4 months ago • 2 min read